Home Sweet Home

just work and home.. nothing else..

most interesting and enjoyable part of life is having to stay @home,
stay up as early as i wanna
sleep all i wanna with the hug of my baby eeyore,
listen to music,
watch tv programmes,
surf net
some reading if i like
:)

i like the homely feel.. home alone..
crazy thought of having a home of my own.. just myself hidding in there..
i need to earn and save a lot to achieve this dream..

no matter how u hid,
this world is so real
life goes on
FACE it!!

half way thru the book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus..
overwhelm by sad memories and feelings, a little shedding tears.
especially this chapter, Men go to their caves and Women talk
which makes me internalise... ...
is he hidding some problems? decision is final! shall put this behind!
i used to talk a lot.. sharing with him.. i'm a nag.. only to him.. Y?
after that i'm hidding in my cave.. putting a false front..
until sensitive friends came to my rescue to listen to my talking..
if not, will i still be in my cave? y do i have this men act?
probably this is the strong side of me? being alone i cant afford to be weak?

New Playlist - All abt TV

drowning in imeem.. drowning in sg tv sound tracks..

Challenging Work

i havnt worked overtime since last qtr ended. what a challenging work today? so many talking and unexpected issues happened at work.. my mind is still so active after working so hard..

三从四德

所谓的“三从”，是指：未嫁从父，既嫁从夫，夫死从子。
1) 意思是说女孩子在未出嫁之前要听从家长的教诲，不要胡乱地反驳长辈的训导，因为长辈们的社会见识丰富，有根本性的指导意义；
2) 出嫁之后要礼从夫君，与丈夫一同持家执业、孝敬长辈、教育幼小；
3) 如果夫君不幸先己而去，就要坚持好自己的本分，想办法扶养小孩长大成人，并尊重自己子女的生活理念。这里的“从”并不是表面上的“跟从”之意，而是有工作性质的“从事”之本质。(《仪礼、丧服、子夏传》)

所谓的“四德”是指：德、容、言、工，
1) 就是说做女子的，第一要紧是品德，能正身立本；
2) 然后是相貌（指出入要端庄稳重持礼，不要轻浮随便，）、
3) 言语（指与人交谈要会随意附义，能理解别人所言，并知道自己该言与不该言的语句）
4) 和治家之道（治家之道包括相夫教子、尊老爱幼、勤俭节约等生活方面的细节）。


现代的【三从四德】
　　============女朋友的三从四德============
　　男友言行要听从
　　男友无知要盲从
　　男友主意要服从
　　男友多情要忍"得"
　　男友薄行要受"得"
　　男友多疑要记"得"
　　男友小气要就"得"
　　============男人的三从四德============
　　女朋友出门要跟"从"
　　女朋友命令要服"从"
　　女朋友讲错要盲"从"
　　女朋友化妆要等"得"
　　女朋友花钱要舍"得"
　　女朋友生气要忍"得"
　　女朋友生日要记"得"

　　版本二：男人的三从四德
　　何为‘三从’？就是‘服从，听从，跟从’；
何为‘四德’？就是‘生日要记得，心思要懂得，花钱要舍得，挨打要忍得

Sianz... very sianz

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Music and Lyrics

S.H.E - nice voice, nice melody, nice lyrics - Touch my heart.
Some quotes:

What so true!! 女孩当自强

拜托眼泪又不是钻石珍珠

一直在哭难道你能一夜之间暴富


爱情卷起万重浪

(越危险的游戏越让人全力以赴)

我们女孩当自强

(可以小鸟依人也能自我保护)

大不了受一点伤

(昨天的伤口会变成明天的礼物)

会让我们更漂亮

(top girl 都要做自己的救世主)


谁怕爱情万重浪

(越危险的游戏更让人义无反顾)

我们女孩当自强

(是最勇敢坚强也最温柔贤淑)

不用谁施舍阳光

(好的坏的都是生活不是包袱)

我们自己是太阳

(top girl就要做自己的救世主)

Life Still Goes On!! 天亮了

天亮了天亮了世界还是好好的

什么痛都是更渺小的

看太阳不是又升起来了


结束一段感情当然不像

瞒个假那么方便太多时间

太多随便堆在回忆那间房间

但是忍耐一定不去碰它就不危险


你没变我没变

我们到最后才能懂这一点

人活着不就为了实现一个个心愿

好可惜我和你许了不同的愿


我的心是我的不会再给你了

我是我自己的我很快乐

Tired? Lazy? OFFLINE!!

Havnt online for 1 week.. haiz.. dont know what to write.. let me think hard.. i no wanna write boring topics to bore myself.. me alr so boring should write something not so boring lar..

!!!THINK!!!

Strike 4D!! No $$!!

Haha.. my hp# strike Sunday 4D 1st prize..

me no GAMBLE lor!!

i feel pity cos mum nv buy for so long suddenly strike